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Friday, April 1, 2011

Looking for love

Trying to find true love in the world is never an easy thing to do, especially as a single mother. Since I've become a mother I had a few interests in men..however they didn't seem to work out. 

If you are a single mother, I'm sure you know exactly what I'm talking about. You either find someone who is so much fun to go out with and do things together with, however when you put that person into the mix of your already formed family involving your child; you know that person is definitely not who you are supposed to be with.

Or you may find someone who seems just perfect. That person might treat you better than any other person has before, they might be the one who treats you to nice dinners, takes you to the movies, writes songs for you, and is wonderful with your child. However, you may still find a reason why you cannot be with them.

I've been in all of these situations, in fact 1 year ago today, I said yes to a marriage proposal. Everything at that time seemed just perfect. But here I am today, not with that person, and I am still incredibly happy just being mommy:)

So mommies out there, be picky, just because they may seem absolutely perfect for you, does not mean that is the perfect situation for your life with your child. Stay focused on being a mom, the rest will come when it is supposed to.

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